Want to Stop Arguing Over Who Does What? Or Money?

    by Karen on 1/30/12 | 1 Comment(s)

    Arguing with your partner over how to parent, money woes and in-laws is pretty standard stuff. But…. it’s exhausting. Who wants to argue over who did the laundry last time or why no one can stand the MIL? Wouldn’t we all rather waltz through these parenting tangles and spend the energy on having time for [...]

    10 Most Common Car Seat Installation Mistakes

    by Karen on 1/30/12 | 4 Comment(s)

    I know I’ve made about 4 of these car seat installation mistakes and I’m pretty sure that I’m not alone. In fact, I know I’m not: studies show that 82 percent or 9 out of 10 car seats are not installed and used correctly. Even more upsetting? Crashes are the leading cause of death for [...]

    Om Your Way Through Parenting: A Buddhist Class

    by Karen on 1/08/12 | 2 Comment(s)

    Just tonight I found myself saying to my 5 year old son (who got out of bed for the 4th time), ” I’m sorry I got so angry, I need to take a deep breath before I react next time.” It seems that I could benefit from a new series of classes for parents based [...]

    Daylight savings sleep tips!

    by Karen on 11/04/11 | 0 Comment(s)

    Daylight savings is coming up this Sunday: this is when we move our clocks back one hour and “gain” an extra hour.  Even just an hour change can be a disruption in your child’s (*and yours!) sleeping. Janeen Hayward, a parent consultant at Swell Being, was kind enough to share her daylight savings sleep tips [...]

    Mathnasium: One Solution to “U.S. Teens Are Among Worst At Math”

    by Karen on 11/04/11 | 0 Comment(s)

    Here’s what I like to think: my kids will be in high school, take the SAT’s (those looovely tests), and do well enough on both the verbal and math components to have a choice selection of colleges to attend.  Until recently, I didn’t realize that I may be dead wrong.  Results from Education Next’s study [...]

    How Your Family Can Help Out at Occupy Wall Street

    by Karen on 10/26/11 | 0 Comment(s)

    Last week, the post that got the most Facebook shares on the blog was on how families could sleep over to support the effort of Occupy Wall Street. What that says to me is that you all are moved by what is going on with the movement, want to educate your kids about it and [...]

    The Marshmallow Test: why saying “no” is good

    by Karen on 9/16/11 | 2 Comment(s)

    This post is from 2 of our Experts on the blog that form the rational and thoughtful whole of Soho Parenting. To read more of their writing, head to ParenTalk. Dr. Walter Mischel’s study of impulse control in the 1960′s and 1970′s using a marshmallow and the directive to wait-and-you-will-get-two has turned out to have [...]

    Free Meetup- Brooklyn’s Best Resources for New and Expectant Parents

    by Karen on 8/04/11 | 0 Comment(s)

    Do you want to know which are the most highly reviewed pediatricians, midwives, dentists, kids’ classes? How about where to meet other parents or even what car service to use? We have the answers! We’ll start off the night asking what your burning questions are: daycare, nanny, doulas, best hospitals? We will help you uncover [...]

    Best Book List For Ages 0-5 Years

    by Karen on 7/27/11 | 2 Comment(s)

    I know I’m not the only one who gets tired of reading the same book over and over at bedtime. Yawwwn……..zzzzzz.  The Rusty Key, a new Brooklyn blog that is dedicated to all things Kid Lit, is helping me and you get over the book doldrums by sharing her favorite books for kids here on [...]

    Parenting Workshops for Fathers-to-Be

    by Serena on 6/28/11 | 0 Comment(s)

    There are a lot of workshops and support groups out there for moms-to-be, but what about the dads-to-be? There is no instruction manual when it comes to parenting (sure wish there was one!), so it can be helpful to hear from experts about what your insane, lovely, amazing and chaotic new life will be! A [...]

    Want a better work-life balance? So do these Brooklynites

    by Karen on 6/22/11 | 1 Comment(s)

    Who isn’t frustrated by the lack of imbalance between our lives and work? With our super cool PDAs that allow us to text, email and call, we are constantly “available”. What we need are support systems that help balance life and work, like mandated parental leave and affordable quality daycare.  A group of neighborhood parents, [...]

    Why are our children their worst with us?

    by Karen on 5/31/11 | 0 Comment(s)

    How many times has your mother-in law said, “She wasn’t like this with me!” or your nanny comments that your son goes down for a nap like an angel with her. Or you go for a parent teacher conference and the description of the child, “first to clean up, so empathetic to other children, what [...]

    Travel tips for the holidays- from the Twin Coach

    by Karen on 5/23/11 | 1 Comment(s)

    For most of us, traveling over the holidays to see family means a lot of planning, packing and preparing (the 3 P’s). It’s not a lot of fun and seems to require as much of our time as the actual vacation itself. If you think traveling with one or two kids is hard, consider doing [...]

    New Comedy About Parenting- plus giveaway and discount

    by Karen on 5/19/11 | 4 Comment(s)

    Here’s a question that I bet you can answer in 3 seconds. What issues have you dealt with as a parent? Work/life balance Keeping romance alive Loss of sleep And the answer was…..? (Of course it was all of them!) In a new romantic comedy called “Cradle and All”, two Brooklyn Heights couples work through [...]

    My favorite movement class for babies

    by Karen on 5/13/11 | 12 Comment(s)

    Whenever I do one of my “Expectant Parents Guide to Brooklyn” talks, the expectant parents inevitably want to know: “How do I meet other parents?” It’s a great question. My answer goes something like this: Find a mom or dad’s group for your neighborhood by joining your neighborhood Yahoo Group Take a class- a good [...]

    Are you a stepparent or divorced parent?

    by Karen on 5/12/11 | 0 Comment(s)

    If you are or are considering becoming a stepparent, are a divorced or divorcing parent, this Peace Summit might be what you are looking for. There really isn’t much “live” discussion about stepparenting,  despite the fact that some key books have been written on the topic. I’m so happy that there will be a live [...]

    Ticks: how to lick ‘em!

    by Jill on 5/02/11 | 2 Comment(s)

    Even in NYC we need to be aware of ticks. I have never found one on the kids or myself after a weekend in the park, but I have found them on the dog, so they must be out there somewhere!   Per the NYC Department Health and Mental Hygiene website, there are two kinds of [...]

    Why kids don’t hear “no”

    by Karen on 4/19/11 | 5 Comment(s)

    Parenting Through Picture Books #2:  Boundary Pushing with “No, David” by Alice Kaltman Have you ever tried to count how many times a day you say “No” to your child? No, not now. Time to go. No, that’s dangerous. Put that down. No, don’t touch that. Pay attention. No, you cant. Be quiet. Stop that!!!!! [...]

    Tribeca Parenting adds courses with free trial

    by Karen on 4/12/11 | 0 Comment(s)

    With Tribeca Pediatric’s expansion into Fort Greene, Tribeca Parenting has been able to expand its workshops and classes. They are now offering baby wearing classes taught by the baby gear gurus (Jamie Grayson and Jennifer Link) who spoke at our Baby Expo. These baby gear experts are especially good as they offer information on baby [...]

    It’s a thin line between love and hate: siblings

    by Karen on 4/01/11 | 2 Comment(s)

    Your three year old is hugging the new baby so sweetly, when all of a sudden the hug turns into a death grip. Your five year old is chasing his two year old sister laughing and – in a flash – he pushes her straight into the wall. Par for the course for siblings. You [...]

    Healthcare for Uninsured: NY has options

    by Jimmy on 3/21/11 | 0 Comment(s)

    There are thousands of working, uninsured adults in New York. Some of them have families. Chances are good that you know someone in this category: the guy delivering your pad thai, a friend,  your nanny or maybe….you. Running around without insurance can be scary, especially if you get sick or have a major medical incident. [...]

    Free acupressure workshop for parents

    by Karen on 3/01/11 | 1 Comment(s)

    Who hasn’t tried a little acupressure on their own?  We press down on our kid’s boo boos to stop them from hurting or rub their tummy when they are having bathroom issues. We even pinch that sweet hand tendon to get rid of a particular annoying headache at times, but- wouldn’t it be great to [...]

    When do you let your kids run errands by themselves?

    by Karen on 2/28/11 | 3 Comment(s)

    I love this guest post because as a parent of younger kids, I haven’t thought much about the issue of when to let my children be physically independent- like doing an errand on their own.  I think more about how physically dependent they are! But I love knowing what issues are “down the road” for [...]

    Sharing- should we expect our kids to do it?

    by Karen on 2/17/11 | 5 Comment(s)

    Parenting through Picture Books #1: Sharing with “Duck & Goose” by Alice Kaltman I have a confession to make: many books written by colleagues sit in a pile on my desk, half- or never-read. I can barely get through these well-researched, informative books, and I know the sleep-deprived, stressed out parents I work with have [...]

    When you are hiring a nanny……

    by Karen on 2/17/11 | 11 Comment(s)

    We’ve had part-time nannies ever since our son Birch was born 4.5  years ago. The hours have varied from 11 hours a week up to 24 now (hello Brooklyn Baby Expo that is slowly killing me!) Along the way, I have learned some valuable lessons that I thought I might share. I’m sure some of [...]