What was your first childhood memory? Depending on the person, this memory will likely be something that happened around the end of your preschool years. As a parent, you are probably wondering when that little baby in your arms is going to start remembering the memories you are building. When will your family trips to the zoo or vacations start to form lasting memories? Here is a closer look at what science says about when your baby will start making memories that last.
The Truth About Childhood Amnesia
For most adults, remembering anything before the age of 5 is a challenge. Sigmund Freud labeled this phenomenon as “childhood amnesia.” Though his reasoning behind the term was flawed, it has stuck. But what really causes it?
According to several different studies, including studies at Stanford University and the Hospital for Sick Children in Toronto, memories made in infancy and early childhood are not lost, but rather they are integrated into more current memories with a process known as neurogenesis. As the brain forms new neurons and pathways, the old ones are crowded or join in with the new ones. In other words, the new memories are restructured to make room for the new ones, and as a result they are harder to recall.
So when can children start making memories that last into adulthood? The answer depends on the child, but most can around age 5.
Do Early Childhood Experiences Matter?
In light of this, you may be wondering if the early childhood experiences you have for your child actually matter. If your son or daughter can’t remember them, should you invest time and energy into them? The answer is yes.
Why? Because memories are units of experience, and each unit of experience has the potential to shape the brain and form a child’s adult identity. Yes, your child may not remember the trip to the zoo you took at age 2, but they will remember that the brown furry creature is called a bear, while the golden one is called a lion. They will remember the feeling of being loved and supported, and that sense of trust will transform them into well-rounded, stable adults. So keep pouring into your children, no matter their age, and remember that even though memories fade, the brain-building experiences do not.
Nicole Jones is a freelance writer who frequently writes about pets, travel, and real estate topics.
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